Hindsight Club

Nobody tells you this stuff

Things people wish they’d known sooner.

26 lessons from people who learned the hard way.

Read one. Then hand one back.

Money

“No matter how nice someone is, when money is involved everybody changes.”

— Kris, learned at 37Wish: 25
Money

“When selling your property, no-one is working FOR YOU, not the real-estate agent, not the mortgage broker, not even "your" solicitor.”

— Joe, learned at 25Wish: 24
Self

“Nobody is thinking about you half as much as you think they are. It's freeing, not sad.”

— Anon, learned at 40Wish: 19
Money

“Compound interest doesn't care how clever you are. Open the boring savings account at 22, not 32.”

— Sam, learned at 32Wish: 22
Career

“Asking the stupid question in the meeting is a superpower. Half the room was wondering the same thing.”

— Priya, learned at 29
Love

“How they treat the waiter is how they'll eventually treat you.”

— Marc, learned at 35Wish: 19
Practical

“Photograph the parking level sign. Every single time. You are not the exception.”

— Anon
Friendship

“Friendships don't end, they lapse. Send the text that's four years late — it almost always lands.”

— Ruth, learned at 51Wish: 30
Your turn

Got one of these in you?

One or two sentences. Your words, kept as you wrote them.

Hand it back →
Health

“Sleep isn't what you do when the work is finished. It's what decides how good the work is.”

— Dan, learned at 38
Family

“Ask your parents the boring questions while they're still bored enough to answer them.”

— Lena, learned at 34Wish: 20
Self

“You can be the villain in someone's story and still have done the right thing.”

— Ife, learned at 33
Self

“Being liked and being respected are different budgets. Spend accordingly.”

— Anon, learned at 45